Deeply grateful to live in a moment in time when dialogues about sexual harassment, abuse & assault are taking place within churches. Was throwing away notes I'd jotted down for #SBC18 panel and glanced over them and saw some things I didn't get to share there. Will share a few:
Keep in mind as you read these that I dearly love the local church and can't imagine life apart from it. I'm for the church, not against it. These are just a few ways based on my own life experience and ministry involvement I think we might help create healthier church cultures.
Resist projecting such a mannerly & moralistic front in services that individuals or family members of individuals suffering from the ravages of sexual harassment, abuse or assault feel like they're the only ones & that leaders would be scandalized if they came forward for help.
God chose the time we would be witnesses, servants & carriers of His gospel on this globe. This is the world we were entrusted to serve. We bear the responsibility of ministering the Word of God and the ways of Christ to THIS culture. We can't preach and teach like this is 1950.
People are in crisis. Countless individuals in those chairs feel shamed, alone, trapped & hopeless. Some, suicidal. Women & children currently being abused are there & not seldom with their abuser beside them. Preach/teach/lead knowing that. Speak often & clearly to their crisis!
The more your church preaches, practices and prides itself on 1 Cor 14:34, the greater your responsibility to continually clarify where women must NOT be silent. "The women should keep silent in the churches" has LONG SINCE sent the shortened message "women should keep silent."
You may not support a woman teaching from the platform but you cannot use Scripture to claim women did not & cannot in any way lead. If women in crisis never see women in visible roles in church & never hear from them, what on earth would ever make them think they would be heard?
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Humility can usher in tremendous healing. The most powerful moment at our event for Native American women: this is Kevin Jones on his knees, our drummer & as Christlike a man as you’ll meet, asking their forgiveness for all hurts & harms they’ve ever received at the hands of men.
I don’t know a man who’s more of a gentleman than Kevin Jones. But he humbly & gladly stood before those women and on behalf of all men who had hurt them, voiced words like these: “I am so sorry. Would you forgive us?” He told them of their worth and prayed on his knees for them.
The tears flowed like rain. I was told again & again that most of them had never EVER heard these things addressed & had certainly never heard anyone say I’m so sorry. Many hurts also come through other women & I addressed those next but this was when the Holy Spirit fell on us.
Scripture reading this AM was 1 Cor 12. I love the juxtaposition of “same” & “variety.” Same Spirit, variety of gifts. What irony that elements meant to make us function as a body are used to keep it disjointed. “You’re different than me so you do not have the same Spirit as me.”
We’ve even developed sufficient hubris to survey that very list of gifts in 1 Cor 12 & say “If you claim to have any in this category, you may have a demonic spirit but you certainly don’t have the Holy Spirit.” I don’t have the least notion this post will change a single mind->
We’ll still do what we’ve been doing: just defending our position/sticking with our team. But it’s wrong. Variety’s a gift meant to be treasured. Appreciated. We get to be very different, bring very different elements to the Body & still be in the same Name & of the same Spirit.
My reading plan had me in Galatians 1-3 this AM which is also my present memory work. Wonder invaded my soul again as I came to Gal 3:8. “And the Scripture, foreseeing that God would justify the Gentiles by faith, preach the gospel beforehand to Abraham...” Don’t rush past it.->
Speed readers of Scripture leap blindly over endless treasures. Those who take time to meditate mine copper from its hills. That’s what I love about memorizing. Every word taken by itself. “Scripture, foreseeing...preached the gospel beforehand to Abraham...” Preached the gospel!
I can hardly write these words without crying. These are the kinds of things Jesus used to ruin me for any other life but one spent searching the Scriptures. Seeing the Old Testament in the New. Seeing the New Testament in the Old. Seeing glimpses & glares of Jesus thru it all.
The crisis of the American church at this critical hour is that we know the issues & our stands better than we know Jesus. Our compromised public witness & rhetoric suggest we’ve confused knowing about Jesus with knowing Jesus. Being with Him is prerequisite to thinking like Him.
We are not being conformed into the image of a great citizen. We are not being conformed into the image of the Bible. We are not being conformed into the image of Peter, Paul or Mary. Or John Calvin. We are being conformed into the image of Jesus. We have left our first love.
Great songs won’t save us. Great preaching won’t save us. Great books won’t save us. Great articles won’t save us. Only Jesus can save us. Without Him all our fine efforts are vanities. “This is eternal life that they know You, the only true God & Jesus Christ whom You’ve sent.”
Let scoffers scoff but let the willing consider the evidence: Madness has descended on our culture in a blinding fog. Pure madness. Unreasonableness. Irreconcilability. Callousness. The devil has come to make animals of image bearers. This he does by convincing us we're gods.
We who follow Jesus have been caught off guard and caught up in it with the rest of our culture. We weren't discipled by our elders for faithfulness and steadfastness in this kind of madness. We are ill-equipped, small-hearted & self-consumed. But we do not have to stay that way.
Scripture warned us this would be a bloody battlefield in a war between light & darkness. Instead of suiting up, we're all sitting in the commentators' box like this is a game, giving our opinions on plays, trashing the handful of players on the court for their poor performance.
100 years from now, if Jesus tarries, imagine Satan reminiscing over this era. “Oh yeah, those were the days alright. All I had to do was get them swept up in fear & it did the rest. Led a whole nation by it. And the funniest part? Christians were the biggest fraidy cats of all.”
We have not just caught the world’s fears. We are leading out in them. My brothers and sisters, these things should not be so. We may call ourselves Christians but we cannot call ourselves Jesus followers and be led by fear. They are going polar opposite directions.
Jesus warned us in the Gospels that there would be endless & increasing causes for fear yet over & over He commanded - not suggested, commanded - His own “Do NOT be afraid.” This was meant to set us apart in eras of terror. This was meant to attract people to our fearless Leader.