Thread by @JephKing

@arkinsquare One very important thing is that these characteristics are the same with LOVE. there's an acronym for it called MR NIGER D
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@arkinsquare So let us take the MR NIGER D one after the other: #Audacious @JephKing @arkinsquare

@arkinsquare M-Love has MOBILITY, it can shift location, migrate or change allegiance if not properly appreciated or tended. When there is no trust Love can consider relocating. #Audacious @JephKing @arkinsquare

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If we apply the golden rule of treating our spouses/ lovers the way we desire to be treated, love is likely to move to the next level rather than walk away. Love have the options of MOVING or Staying

@arkinsquare R- Love RESPIRATES, it can breathe and that why lovers sometimes ask for breathing space. A polluted marriage or courtship environment can be toxic to Love. #Audacious @JephKing @arkinsquare

@arkinsquare It is the responsibility of partners to jointly work to create an enabling environment for love to breathe fresh air. If love is chocking you p;easee walk away at least to get fresh air. #Audacious @JephKing @arkinsquare

@arkinsquare N-Love requires balanced NUTRITION. a well prepared and balance diet in order to to suffer from Love Kwashiokor #Audacious @JephKing @arkinsquare

@arkinsquare One day of hatred, two days of indifference and another day of 'sorry , it wont happen again' is not a good enough diet to keep love healthy. #Audacious @JephKing @arkinsquare

@arkinsquare Some marriages are suffering from marital kwashiorkor because the basic nutrition such as appreciation, mutual respect, simple courtesy are in scarce supply or are non-existent. #Audacious @JephKing @arkinsquare

@arkinsquare Hello ....are with still flowing together? 😀😀 the next is: I- IRRITABILITY- Love has the ability to RESPOND to positive / negative stimulus. #Audacious @JephKing @arkinsquare

@arkinsquare Love can feel your touch, hear the tone of your words, see your body language, measure the velocity with which you walked out of the room and could read meanings to them. #Audacious @JephKing @arkinsquare🤪

@arkinsquare It has the capacity to reflect, retort, become excited or moody after a conversation or just be put off by your poor hygiene. YES dirty bodies is toxic enough to extingusih love like Mortein #Audacious @JephKing @arkinsquare

@arkinsquare Love has EMOTIONS, the tendency to FEEL the temperature and respond accordingly. Women are naturally emotional and they are the thermometer of the home. #Audacious @JephKing @arkinsquare

@arkinsquare Every wise guy & lady should endeavour to study how to regulate this thermometer while at the same time, we all have to know how to subject our emotions to correct REASONING. #Audacious @JephKing @arkinsquare

@arkinsquare We all need thermostart for the correct regulation of our emotions. #Audacious @JephKing @arkinsquare🥰

@arkinsquare G-Love can GROW if the variables are favourable, but can also remain stunted if otherwise. Growth is a product of good nutrition, weeding, pruning, application of growth supplements etc. #Audacious @JephKing @arkinsquare

@arkinsquare Love can’t grow under neglect or left to mother mature, there must be proactive efforts from us. May I ask what proactive efforts you are putting into your marriage/courtship? #Audacious @JephKing @arkinsquare

@arkinsquare How often do you read materials that can increase your capacity to Love? When last did you invest in a seminar to help you renew the love life? #Audacious @JephKing @arkinsquare

@arkinsquare Are you a LEARNING couple who gets updated daily or you still live in the ancient expecting to handle the 21st century challenges with outdated strategies? #Audacious @JephKing @arkinsquare

@arkinsquare It’s only the LEARNING lover that will survive the onslaught of Satan against the 21st century family. #Audacious @JephKing @arkinsquare

@arkinsquare E- EXCRETION....whoa, Love can and need to do lots of waste disposal. Please permit me to say 'Love dey shit'. #Audacious @JephKing @arkinsquare😝😝

@arkinsquare Love has the capacity to purge itself of toxins & excesses such as partners mistakes, failure of yesterday, disappointment / betrayal, feeling of hopelessness, pains of partner's infidelity (cyber or real-life) etc #Audacious @JephKing @arkinsquare

@arkinsquare When you refuse to allow love to do environmental sanitation of itself, you might be sitting on a time bomb. Dont sweep things under the carpets again. Excrete it #Audacious @JephKing @arkinsquare

@arkinsquare Partners must CONSCIOUSLY excrete on regular basis so that they don't suffer from internal pollution that can kill their marriage/relationship. Refusal to excrete is readiness to turn your marriage into a dunghill. #Audacious @JephKing @arkinsquare

@arkinsquare Anybody in this flight with me ?✈️✈️✈️ #Audacious @JephKing @arkinsquare

@arkinsquare Lets talk about R-REPRODUCTION- Love can reproduce....in fact it has higher tendencies to be productive than to be sterile depending on packaging, handling and delivery. #Audacious @JephKing @arkinsquare

@arkinsquare I don't buy the '50-50' love stuff, rather I advocate for 100-100. If you are doing 50-50 love what happens to the 50 each partner is holding back? #Audacious @JephKing @arkinsquare

@arkinsquare Love is an investment. You get what you input : Gabage in Gabage out. What you SOW is what you get , theres is no Magic or miracle that can give you a better harves than your deposits #Audacious @JephKing @arkinsquare

@arkinsquare We can't depend on luck or even leave everything to God. (Faith that leaves everything in the hands of God while failing to do the human/work aspect is an irresponsible faith) #Audacious @JephKing @arkinsquare

@arkinsquare The circumstances of life are at not designed to pamper us rather they are to toughen us provided we are rightly positioned. Are you rightly positioned for a productive love? If not, you will be blown away. (Matt 7:24-27) #Audacious @JephKing @arkinsquare

@arkinsquare Finally as I round up my presentation . Let me take the last point: D-DEATH. Can love die? #Audacious @JephKing @arkinsquare

@arkinsquare YES, it can die but not easily. the DEATH of LOVE depends on the foundation upon which it is planted. Can love die in Christian marriages? YES if the love was planted or nurtured on ignorance, selfishness, hypocrisy or wrong theology. #Audacious @JephKing @arkinsquare

@arkinsquare If love can't die how then could Mr XYZ have stabbed his wife to death on her birthday? How could Mrs ABC organize area boys to shoot her husband after 10 years of marriage with 3 children? #Audacious @JephKing @arkinsquare

@arkinsquare If trust has been serially betrayed or the condition of the relationship becomes corrosive & abusive, love can die. If the sense of self-worth has been eroded, love can enter comatose and never come out alive. #Audacious @JephKing @arkinsquare

@arkinsquare Last line: LOVE IS A LIVING THING; treat your partner with RESPECT, add value to your relationship as you would do to your career.#Audacious @JephKing @arkinsquare

@arkinsquare I honestly appreciate this opportunity. Please does nayone have a question or clarification?#Audacious @JephKing @arkinsquare

@arkinsquare What do I mean by wrong theology? So MANY perosn have been fed with some CULTURAL and PERSONAL opinions that have been 'Biblicalized' to sound like its the word of God #Audacious @JephKing @arkinsquare

@arkinsquare Eg: we have been told before that : there is ONLY ONE man/woman destined for you to marry and if you miss him/her youre done forever. ITS NOT TRUE. The idea came from the cultural myth of pre-destination which the bible has explained better #Audacious @JephKing @arkinsquare

@arkinsquare E:G we have also been told that we should ONLY marry from our denomination. Its a confusing theology. The pastors who said those things might have reasons but it SHOULD not be a theology to preach. No denomination in Heaven.#Audacious @JephKing @arkinsquare

@arkinsquare EG. We have been told that a lady CANNOT marry a man she is older than. Its an African cultural stuff not Biblical. It might have its own challenges but it shouldnt be turned to a LAW. #Audacious @JephKing @arkinsquare

@arkinsquare E.G I have heard a preacher who said any married couple who have sex with the woman on top will not enter heaven. Its a WRONG theology . that is his own personal opinion. #Audacious @JephKing @arkinsquare

@arkinsquare We should be CAREFUL to separate betwen PERSONAL opinion, CULTURE from "Thus Saith the Lord". Faliure to do this will create confusion and wrong theology in the body of Christ.#Audacious @JephKing @arkinsquare

@arkinsquare Thank you all for flying with me ........🛬🛬🛬 as we touch down, I like to admonish you to be someone who can LEARN, UNLEARN and RE-LEARN. That is how to stay afloat in this 21st century. God bless.