Today I haven't even try to have a boymode and I feel inconfortable at work because if that. 🤔
of*
And I can't do my boy voice.
I just can't. My brain is pushing me out of the closet 🤔
I planned a meeting with the HR. No coming back (but a coming out 😆)
The HR was perfect. She was supportive and will be here when I will talk with the CEO. I could be full-time in 2 weeks.
This would be exactly one year after the beginning of my transition. 💥💥💥
Mail sended to the CEO. I save my party before the final boss
erratum: Litteral YOLO
erratum erratum: boyfriend says my sentence doesn't mean anything.
> Mail sent to the CEO. I saved my game before the final boss.
ALERT
CEO wants to talk now.
I'm gonna be full time September 6. Final boss is defeated and supportive.
OMG. I did it. 3 coming out today, more than 15 in 3 weeks. WTF life.
I'm have to buy more clothes. And prepare my Facebook letter. And find more resources for my coworkers. And sleep. I need to sleep.
Next steps:
- CO Facebook
- I want a tattoo to celebrate that
- I would love 2 strands of hair colored, maybe in white or red
- New ID card
Maybe in the style of Riley from #Sense8
Me: "good evening!"
CEO: "Goodbye A..." (My born name begins also with a "A")
I suppose my name will be A for two weeks. 😂
Can I be "A+" instead? I want the best for me.
So sad I am not a "L". I always dreamed to be a famous detective.
Here we go for the phase where I don't know how to act with the people who *know* at work
Particularly, I'm totally lost with the voice I need to use with them. I'm unconfortable no matter wich voice I choose.
So, again:
HR and ❤️ best coworker ❤️ are already gendering me correctly in our private conversations
Here is a dilemma for you:
- 8th laser session is tomorrow morning
- Hair go away 10-15 days after
- My coming out at work is next Wednesday
Do I
- Wait after the weekend for the hair to fall and start presenting as a woman 9/11 (😕)
- don't care about my passing and start next day
I also don't know if it would be better to let them 4 days for everyone to be aware of my CO, or not wait to avoid 2 weird days in boymode
I suppose it will be really important that I will don't look like a woman with a beard for my "new first day" at work. So maybe 9/11.
9/11 could be fun 'cause my birthday is 11/9.
"This is a new birth \(°>°)/ !"
2 more person knows in my work and : so far so good ☀
Because they know it, I can begin to send mails to our candidates for a internship with my new name \o/
I never felt less ready in my all life.
The weather begins to be colder. Time to buy girl clothes for winter. I missed scarfs.
One more person! The girl who was taller than me :D
I planned to do one more before the public coming out (one of the project manager I work with every day. She come back monday)
Just spent half of my pay on clothes to prepare full-time. I would buy every cardigans of this planet if you would let me.
The last CO before public CO was greaaaat. I feel more confident now.
Sended a mail to CEO & co and received luck and courage.
New struggle: what should I say during my CO with all my other colleagues? Which amount of details do they need?
I would love your feedback
Do they need to know about HRT? Depression? Do I just say "hello im a woman call me Agathe please bye" x) ?
CO H-48
Do I prepare a marriage or a coming out x) ?

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Mar 24, 2018
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Hello les gens ! Comme promis je vais essayer de faire un thread introductif à la transidentité.

Si vous n'êtes pas trans, vous pourriez y apprendre des choses qui vous aideront à mieux vous comporter avec des personnes trans.
Préambule :

La transidentité est un concept encore très mal défini et on aurait bien de la peine à se lancer dans des définitions immuables. Chaque personne trans aura une expérience, une définition, un parcours différent.

Donc ne vous contentez pas de mon thread.
à la naissance, selon vos parties génitales, on vous défini selon 2 catégories : garçon ou fille. On vous dit : vous deviendrez respectivement un homme ou une femme.

Pour l'immense majorité de la population, ça se révèle exacte.
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Mar 14, 2018
Tiens et si je faisais mon propre thread de questions comme tous les gens branchés font ?

Ça va vous occuper si vous passez une soirée pourrie. Allez hop, on répond ! 🙆
1. C'est quoi pour toi une journée idéale ?
2. Est-ce que tu penses être une meilleure personne que ton/ta toi d'il y a un an ?
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