One of the worst harms done to transracial adoptees of color, especially transracial AND transnational adoptees of color, is stealing us from our homelands while depriving us of cultural connection and community.
Some tips on access-centered event/program organizing/planning (some are mine; many I learned from other fabulous folks):
(1) When you put information about the event online, whether on (a) a website, (b) in email announcements, or (c) social media, only include images if you include alt-text and text-only captions.
(2) Don't rely on online/email/social media to get the word out.
Call people too. Many comrades with intellectual disabilities strongly prefer phones, even if they can use the internet+email. (And many can't+are actively deprived of access/training.)
Over the last 6 or 7 years since I first posted the original Ableist Language Glossary on my blog, I've received literally thousands of comments on it in every form.
Fan mail, hate mail, concern trolling, and mutually contradictory criticisms.
So! Let's clear some things up.
(1) The list is NOT a litmus test.
Stop fucking using it as a censored word list.
Its purpose is to inform and educate, not enforce increased policing/surveillance of random people's language.
(2) It is a RESOURCE.
It's meant to be available to help folks who would like to take a close look at their own language think about their everyday use of words with ableist pasts or presents.
A friend sent me this and asked me to share to protect their anonymity -- very important info for Boston #queer#trans#LGBTQ community about @FenwayHealth:
Content Warning: Suicide, medical abuse, sexual assault, self-harm.
"I'd like to take a few minutes of your time to warn you about a dangerous psychiatrist at Fenway Behavioral Health, Dr. Howard Hernandez. I apologize for not writing this sooner, but I didn't feel ready to share this until now."
"About thirteen months ago I saw Dr. Hernandez for the first time. It was an initial intake visit, so much of our time was taken up by completing my history."