1/7 Why do a lot of Igbo professionals thrive in Canada?
They thrive on Competition/Meritocracy
They ensure they/their kids have at least 2 degrees/engage in strong extra curricular activities+Sports/community Networks
They do not choose courses/careers based on sentiments..
2/7. Igbos in Canada support one another. Especially economically. It is a remarkable thing and I am often inspired/humbled by it. Even with all the ego/intra - group fightings, the town - union networks are cohesive and ensure all members get the skills they need to thrive here.
3/7. When you arrive in Canada, there is often an Igbo family to take you in for the first few weeks or months. Yes. You live with them, they put you through -how to get "Canadian work/study experience", how to upgrade your skills, how to use a cohort type of shared accommodation
4/7. Most Igbo professionals/traders have an unwritten rule; regardless of your day job, you have a side business e g A teacher in public school will offer individual lessons, those who cook well have catering businesses, and there's an unwritten "patronize your own" initiative☺
5/7. And so if say 4 new families arrive town, you will find a network of Igbos who reach our to them, help with groceries/accomodation/driving them around, until they settle in. They could someone to loan then a car, teach them how to get lower insurance based on residence etc.
6/7 If there's a scholarship available for students, these town union groups keep a tab and share with families. If there are new policies on housing/taxes/all regulations, professionals run in-house workshops to let the community members know how it affects them. Info -sharing..
7/7. People invest as coops. One person may not be able to buy a house but 3 or 5 people can come together and invest in real estate. Within a few years they sell/split returns. Then reinvest again. Here, "Igwebuike" is real. No lone rangers in the abroad or hunger go wire you!😂
7/7a. And MENTORSHIP is prized here. Just like the "IMU AHIA" apprenticeship model we all grew up with back in Nigeria, our measure of success here is HOW many youths/families have you mentored/helped to succeed? Whether in trade or professionally. There is always someone to help
7/7b/ So for instance, that your own children finished from universities, got great jobs, while this is celebrated, the bigger accolades goes to how many other children of OTHER people did you replicate the same with. So you see a lot of joint scholarships/grants/mentorship etc..
7/7c. Quick story -A few yrs ago, I'd travel far to get my African grocery and there were a lot of other Nigerians living in my neighbourhood. Guess what? The Grocery store owner told me to buy in BULK from her and she would simply direct all these people to buy/pick up from me..
7/7d. And I'll never forget that experience. It showed me how collaboration opens up new value chains/opportunities. For her, she didn't view it as competition, rather a way to serve all her customers, and a way to even create wealth for me too. "Onye agha na nwanne ya" in action
7/7e. Children are ENCOURAGED to excel in SPORTS/CREATIVE ARTS/ACADEMICS...So it's not surprising to see kids being drafted in SPORTS (NBA/CFL etc), when they go into Fashion/Art etc, the community of town unions abroad offer incredible support. And those who excel are CELEBRATED
7/7f And IF you doubt the Igbo spirit of IGWEBUIKE, you need to simply witness HOW they rally around any member of their community who experiences a loss abroad. I have seen young widows/kids being surrounded with such support/resources, not just at time of incident but for years
7/7g. Don't get me wrong, our usual ego-based in-fighting are still there, community associations splintering and then coming back together🤣🤣The 'IGBO ENWE EZE' is both a positive and a curse BUT we know how to put all that aside and really rally round one another for PROGRESS!
7/7h. Anyway, I am excited about the next wave -a whole NEW generation of Igbo youths, most of them born abroad, who are so focused on giving back to their communities back home and have created a VOLUNTEER platform to do so, in collaboration with youths at home. It's pretty cool
7/7i. In due time, you will see the works/activities/projects from #SERVE Youth-led, and built from a tradition/culture of youths who have experienced first hand the power of community service, of being there for one another, of ensuring the most vulnerable is supported to EXCEL!
7/7j. NWANNE DI NA MBA; Here, I saw the beauty of this in action. Just like Maya Angelou's poem -"You cannot make it out here alone". And I love that a whole new generation raised in the west is now committed to rebuilding their VILLAGES/COMMUNITIES...giving a DIGNIFIED hand up😊
And FINALLY, when I say "OGADIMMA", "NKIRUKA" -it is not a dream or rhetorics. We are ACTIVELY and with deliberate INTENTIONS, investing in a NEW Generation that will do better than we have done. That understands that we all win, when everyone gets a fair chance to EXCEL IN LIFE!
When we love ourselves, it's so easy to love others. When you value your life, it is so easy to value the lives of others. When you support one another, it is so easy to extend the same support to others. That is why LOVE is the key that unlocks it all. IFUNANYA..trite but true!
My ONE request after you're done reading this thread (I tell all mentees/groups/platforms):
Read "OUTLIERS" by Malcolm Gladwell 3 Times:
1/ Read alone and take notes; 2/ Read with a like-minded friend/buddy/partner and take notes 3/ Read as a group/community -DISCUSS/IMPLEMENT
*HEALTHY COMPETITION & COLLABORATION, based on clearly established values of Excellence/Meritocracy/Inclusivity are powerful frameworks to unlock any groups potential. You can fill gaps and break down systemic barriers. Study how systems work, learn from mistakes of others, GROW!
IF you already have a neurology where culturally you can pack your belongings in a plastic bag and head to LAGOS/KANO/ABUJA from your village, with a mindset that you WILL thrive, EMIGRATING ABROAD becomes an easier process because you already know HOW to use town-union networks.
I am sharing some of these proven tips/strategies/experiences because I assumed all communities were doing same and it saddens me to see people come abroad as 'lone rangers' then struggle to survive for years. Why make the same mistakes that others before you made? COLLABORATION
Tip: When you come abroad, we typically suggest to new immigrants WITH CHILDREN, to find accommodation in the best neighbourhood; rent a smaller unit/basement/apt/share a split unit with other families, then get your own, cos GOOD NEIGHBOURHOODS = Good Schools/SAFETY/AMENITIES...
Please, if you're a Nigerian in the abroad, help other Nigerians thrive. Do same at home. WE are all stronger, together. When ALL of us thrive, we all benefit. When all our children thrive, we leave a meaningful legacy. All these East/West/North/South divides are just nonsensical
When politicians agree on a set agenda with clear rules of engagement, whatever the outcome, the decision should be upheld, especially if the parties participate.
Nothing is do or die. Rules should not be changed when it does NOT favour individuals
Did candidates pull out before the votes are tallied or after? If after, it means they participated and so were bound by the rules;
If the voting outcome were reversed 4:3 and FD lost, how would we have felt/reacted if FD backed out??
When aspirants dropped from 19/18 to 13...why didn't those who felt it was no longer a consensus/no longer comfortable with the process, all back out like Sowore did?
I guess I am saying processes matter.
Constitutionally, yes, everyone can still run...but, lots to learn here..
1/7 It suddenly hits you that we have serious systemic rot as a society and behavioural challenges wrt personal hygiene, maintenance culture, waste management & environmental sanitation.
This is a thread about the intl airport in Abuja, our Capital, the gateway to our nation😭😢
2/7. Typically, I love to be law abiding. I just think a culture of anyhowness does no one any good. However, today, I did not do as asked.
Basically, I was told to take off my shoes to go through the security checks and I flat out said NO! Why? The carpet/floor were so filthy!
3/7 On any other given day, I may have simply overlooked and tippy-toed on the dust/dirt filled carpet but not today. I just couldn't. What would it cost these folks to have a proper maintenance/cleaning culture in place? Why have a carpet that traps so much dirt & not vacuum it?
Some deride and attack, publicly and via DM, saying it's akin to a wasted vote. Really? I supported a 'strong man-General' from the North, today, Zamfara is wasting away. You voted a Southerner from Niger Delta, till date, Ogoni is wasting away
FEDERAL ROADS in the NORTH and SOUTH are still death traps! Boko Haram is still bombing, herdsmen are still slaughtering, bandits are still attacking/sacking villages, kidnappers are still killing...ARE YOU NOT TIRED OF THE UTTER DISREGARD FOR LIFE? Are you not sick of deja vu??
Is your soul NOT wearied from seeing the poor & vulnerable treated with such contempt? Are you not livid that IDPs are being created daily? Does it not seem like we're at war? Are you not darn tired of EVERY DAY FEELING LIKE A HEART-CRIPPLING DAY OF NATIONAL MOURNING & HATE-FEST?
As an Igbo woman I can go to ANY part of Yoruba land and buy land, even in their villages, Christian or Muslim or Traditionalist. I have Yoruba female friends who inherit ancestral lands
As a woman I cannot own ancestral land in my village. My brother/cousin has to front for me
These are the honest, difficult, open & meaningful conversatii we need to have as Nigerian women. HOW we can learn from positives of one another and not demean one another
FGM is highest in Osun and Ebonyi states. And lowest in the North. And so, we can learn from the North too.
The challenge of child marriage and it's associated consequences (VVF/lower literacy rates..), are more pronounced in the North. These challenges existed I the SE/SW and were curbed using a combination of approaches. We can all learn from one another.
1. Great Reminder
"In the spirit of healing some of the pain and frustration Nigerians are currently going through - when it seems like we just cannot get along, I am sharing an old speech by Nurudeen Lemu that might help us chart a way forward to peace and Justice." -@Naijavote
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Written and Presented by Sheikh Muhammad Nurudeen Lemu from Niger State:
“As a delegate, and as a people representing people of faith in God from the Islamic perspective, one thing we believe is that God will protect the community that stands for justice..."
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"..even if they are not Muslims and God will not protect the community that goes contrary to justice even if they call themselves Muslims.
God is not a religious bigot. He is not a male chauvinist. He is not an ethnocentric tribalist. God is not the oppressor of anyone..."
If you think the dysfunction/historical experiences/lawlessness/injustice of this nation doesn't shape your thinking or unconscious behaviour, you may be in lala land.
50 years post-civil war, Igbos build lovely mansions they hardly use, in their villages because "what if"...???
People in the middle belt and in all other regions, will be shaped by these experiences. Trust in nationhood is built when citizens trust the state to protect them.
In the absence of this, lawlessness reigns & people jetisson state/community of residence & cling to their origins
If people do not feel/experience/perceive a real sense of security, then we have not achieved anything as a nation
The danger/sadness of Nigeria is once you are cast as a villain, when you are attacked, your pain is diminished/justified