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That picture of Zac Efron with dog poo dreads is sending me LOL! But it also reminds me of a very cringe™ era in my life when I flocked to White boys like him based on, you guessed it, preference!
My babes @queersocialism and @_hoemo joke about it all the time, but that era really did teach me to triple-check why I find somebody attractive. Do I think they're "fine" because they're actually fine? Or is it because they're White (or White-Adjacent)? 🤔
I think we underestimate how much we're programmed to find #FFFFFF folx (or anyone adjacent) attractive even when they look like toes lmfao. It's part of why I take media criticism very seriously.
Some argue "preference" starts at home (which is also true), but I feel like it's a chicken and egg thing. Mainstream media pushes Whiteness. Mainstream media is consumed in our homes. So, it goes without saying that that messaging is gonna be internalized---knowingly or not.
And the same people who consume that messaging...go out and create more of the same. So do you see the problem lol?
TL;DR: Is that guy/girl cute or are they just White? More at 11 😂

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@YetideBadaki 😁!!!)

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.@Bossip these mofos at it again. Biting you shit 😤
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I hate how this question is a thing too (i.e misogynoir & colorism) but the older I get, the more I realize that it’s not because the asker is seeking validation (eff y’all, BW are dope), but more so because bigotry in dating is an immense time waster & who got time to waste?
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*snorts*

As you are saying this, Debra, media outlets are still having a field day with male survivor Jimmy Bennett for even *daring* to come forward about being allegedly assaulted by Asia Argento.
What is with y’all and lying about the believability of male/non-women survivors? Like patriarchy doesn’t also chew them up and spit them out for being ~weak enough~ to be assaulted???? Hmm? What gives?
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