This is part of the fermented/Aged Food branch. One intolerance has a cascade effect on other foods.
[food, dietary restrictions]
This mind map thing is really helping me process some feels and I think also it's less "here's my huge list of food intolerances" more "a few categories that have many sub categories"
Which is helping ease my internalized ableism tbh
[Food, dietary restrictions]
I know there's a lot of overlap with mast cell triggers, so in case this helps anyone here's my current mind map of #MCAS triggers
Help with captioning is appreciated.
[Food, dietary restrictions]
Nest on my to do list is a map of acceptable substitutions for #MCAS triggers.
[Food, dietary restrictions]
Just preemptively : maybe don't tell me right now if I probably react to X if I react to Y.
I am still emotionally processing the cocoa thing.
[Food, dietary restrictions]
I feel really lucky whenever someone else cooks me mast cell friendly food
Because cooking is SO. MUCH. LABOR.
But it's also exhausting to try to explain what I can and can't eat
So I'm trying to streamline the communication process
Also this is not necessarily a perma ban on all the things
I wouldn't be able to leave my house
It's harm reduction, and limiting how many triggers I'm exposed to at once.
[Dietary restrictions]
The metaphor my PT uses
Is that my body is like a bathtub, and the water is histamine triggers
It's important to both drain the tub (meds, mostly, and access hacks) and limit triggers (pacing, dietary changes)
So the tub doesn't overflow is flare up
This has also been (accurately) described as the Devil's Arithmetic
"My reactions on a given day are the cumulative product of the amount of irritation my mast cells have experienced in the previous day or two. There is always a running tally in my mind"
I know folks with IgE mediated food allergies deal with a ton of microaggressions around "but why are you eating X today if you're so allergic to it"
These microaggressions makes the whole "how much I can tolerate changes day to day" that much more stressful
[Ableism]
I also know there are stereotypes about "picky eaters", "special snowflakes", and "fake allergies"
My gf has literal tests documenting allergies and gets told "people aren't allergic to honey."
So the whole mast cell thing is...yeah
[Ableism]
I'm really lucky that my inner onion ring of support is totally accepting of my histamine triggers, and just ask questions when they're trying to understand better
I mean if exams are in blue books and hand written, and people taking notes on laptops and other accessible technology have trouble writing by hand, then this is ZERO SURPRISE but I bet @Lollardfish is right it's time for able academics to yell about laptop bans
Getting really tired of this thing where a marginalized person says "this will harm my community" and people say "you're exaggerating that hasn't happened"
then like a week later the thing happens. The same doubters are all WHO COULD HAVE PREDICTED THIS CALAMITY
🙃
The good thing is once you spot the pattern it's easier not to become one of those people WHO COULDN'T HAVE PREDICTED THIS CALAMITY because they didn't listen to / believe marginalized people.
It's really easy to personally break this cycle. Ready?
1. If a marginalized person says a thing will harm their community, believe them.
2. Signal boost and see if anyone suggests ways to help
In case you are also chronically ill and planning for potential power outages or heat waves, here are some things I do or am considering doing for copes
Hopefully this will help someone else
It sounds weird but this dog pad is pressure activated cooling power. It requires no electricity and is reusable. (You can also make it RLY cold in the freezer.)
There are big dog sizes that work for my entire body
It feels like maybe people think disabled people did not research or discuss alternatives to plastic straws before engaging in a protracted, exhausting campaign for "opt in for plastic straws" instead of a straw ban.