I had lunch with my Pastor yesterday. We discussed many things, including my growing scepticism about the traditional structure of physical churches.
I also mentioned that I was no longer attending church regularly, as I was taking some personal time to deconstruct the nature of Christ's relationship with humans, outside church walls.
At some point in our lunch date, I launched into the familiar spiel of why there was so much religion in #Nigeria, yet lacklustre governance. I wondered about the salt-seasoning and light-giving properties of the church in Nigeria (Matthew 5:12-16).
My pastor said something that ignited a light bulb in my head - "Subomi, you don't need religion to create a great country or to ensure good governance." We then went on to talk about the nations of the world that are not religious, yet exhibit great governance.
Yesterday's lunch was a learning point for me. When we quote Matthew 5:12-16, we forget the scripture is directed at individuals, not local church structures.
Salt is a preservative. If one believes that the world will eventually come to an end and be reborn, then at best, the Christian's presence serves as a preservative, to give enough time for people to be reconciled to God.
If salt is seasoning, then it is one of many elements in a dish. It cannot replace the active roles of chefs who combine ingredients to produce world-class concoctions. Governance is a project management matter, not an input issue.
If Christians are light, then they provide direction and illumination in the vast construction site we call life. People still need to do the actual building. If Christians are light, then they also shape minds and hearts though values-based engagement and authentic wisdom.
However, if the physical church (as presently constituted) is where the pastor presides, then, it is a TRAINING ground (Ephesians 4: 10-12 AMP), among other things. One of its roles is to equip the saints.
Among other things, church is an interactive academy for values and knowledge. But, the students must graduate someday and get jobs of their own. They cannot remain in school forever.
It is clearer to me that many times, the physical church serves its purpose. It is some church members who refuse to leave its safe confines to do actual work in the real world. They get empowered in church but use the knowledge for themselves and for their families, not society.
It is church members who are so obsessed with making heaven, that they don't mind living in hell on earth. Hell-holes like Nigeria.
It is church members who outsource charity and social responsibility to the inefficient administrative structures of local assemblies. The reasoning is that after all, they've paid their tithes.
It is church members who do not get entangled in the "affairs of this world" or in politics, yet are quick to play the government blame game. Perhaps the problem of Nigeria is not lazy youths. It is lazy oblivious protected church members.
Tangentially, I also believe that like other NGOs, registered churches can come together as civil society participants. They can advocate for good governance and speak to issues.
The law recognises that churches are NGOs. Since they represent large swathes of citizens, they are powerful constituents. Whether or not they choose to deploy that power for good or to enrich their leaders instead, is another matter entirely.
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First, the book presents the bad news and some frightening stats that should precipitate a state of emergency, if we had brain in #Nigeria. #FixNigerianHealthcare
LIFE HAPPENS | “Sho, do you cook?”, my date asked. I replied jauntily, “I used to but not anymore. I now have access to a chef and can afford to order what I like eating.” #Thread#Life#Relationships
My date followed up by asking, “If your boyfriend asked you to cook for him, would you?” I grinned, as I realised my date was sadly playing from a script. I replied, “I don’t have a guy I like who’s asking me to cook, so I can’t say.”
I think my date thought I was being coy. But, I wasn’t. I was just being honest. A while ago, I decided to deal in reality and not hypotheticals. I have tried and failed to control life. All my effort got me was an anxiety problem and therapy.
#HEALING, #MEDICINE & OTHER MATTERS: One thing I struggle with and continue to talk to God about, is the ratio of people he heals versus those healed by medicine or those who eventually die.
Let's discount specific waves of the Spirit, for a moment - the ministries of Kathryn Kuhlman and other documented faith healers. Instead, let's do a simple headcount of those who get miraculously healed in an average church.
We may find that less people are healed supernaturally than those who die, or those who get healed through medicine.
"God, I want my future back." Those were the words I whispered to God two weeks ago, while I was going through the greatest health scare of my life. #Thread#Health#Life
In the midst of the tests and various medical consultations, it occurred to me that my life had stopped. My symptoms limited my movements and where I could go. So, I couldn't plan and I couldn't project forward.
Things like traveling or dating went out of the window. I was stuck on finding a solution to my health challenge. My tests are still ongoing. I'm still seeing doctors, but we think we now know what's wrong. And so, I am hopeful.
My next video & WhatsApp investment course begins on September 7. You can join from anywhere in the world. Here's what I'll teach:
- Foundational principles of investing
- Three investment indices you should track regularly
- How to set up an investment account
- Important documentation you will need for investing
- Professional advisors you will need
- Breakdown of the different areas you can invest in including: Treasury bills, money market funds, stocks & shares, real estate, agriculture, cryptocurrency, exports and venture funding
- How to start investing
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Yesterday, I thought about how difficult it is for many of us to concatenate being Christian with enjoying life. #Thread#Christianity#Christian
Somehow we imagine one cannot be Christian and sexual, Christian and metrosexual, Christian and gourmand. When we are forced to make a choice, we either choose active Christian and boring or passive Christian and epicurean.
I am so alive. I am culturally exposed and enjoy living. But, there is a centredness to me. Because God lives within me, he modulates everything I do.