I have had the worse experiences of my life relationship wise and I was resolute to let relationship be. As a matter of fact, I decided I would never have anything to do with any woman again.
After 4 failed relationships with all my partners cheating on me and leaving me because I was a gentle man, I eventually met Derinsola during a vacation visit to the Bahamas. Being that I love them thick , the click was sleek. Somehow she feel for me aswell
Derin was the woman of my dreams beyond her gorgeous body, she was caring and super sweet. I was certain we're the dream couple bcos even the devil could see we were inseparable. I thought after the vacation we would break off but we only got stronger & better together.
Bcos of the nature of our jobs, we barely saw except on weekends & special arrangements. On one of her off days I decided to supreme her by paying her visit in the afternoon. I quickly drove to my friend's house who sells wristwatches to get her a surprise gift
Bcos I was in a hurry to get it over with I rushed into his house and headed for his kitchen to eat something first but what I saw blew me away. I saw my precious beloved Derin in between two guys screaming "harder harder don't stop"
I immediately broke down bcos for the 9months we been together I've not even seen her bra strap bcos she claimed to be "virgin" and I believed her bcos I loved her very much. But here she was being ploughed by two hefty men🙆🙆 I just walked away in tears before I lost it.
It was so hard to deal with that it affected me psychologically & I became less productive in the office. My boss was resolute on having me fired but my records and the weight I pulled in the company made him have a rethink & he sent me for a retreat in the UK
In Aberdeen, Scotland all I wanted was an escape and interestingly I found the escape. The retreat was a Yoga Psychological & mental cleansing exercise. I was bamboozled to see several Africans and specifically Nigerians. I thought we Nigerians don't usually have these issues
But my perception changed. The whole thing was to last a period of 8 months but in my 3rd month I was almost as good as cleansed with a resolution that I'll do away with everything that has to do with women until a new set of Nigerians joined us.
All through the first three months I've had several beautiful girls throw themselves at me but I was resolute to a fault that I told them off directly. At some point, I would skip exercises just to avoid them and I got punished for this with longer hours of exercise
My healing progress was so swift that I was given a session to handle for the new intakes. I and the coach even fought over this but it would seem I don't have a choice. The first few weeks were cool until some of the ladies began to see me as a sex object😭😭😭
There was this two friends Betty and Derby who came together. Obviously Betty was the rich spoilt kid who came with her poor friend Derby to support her in her downtime.
Betty was so pushy that every other girl around decided to let me be for the fear of her.
Despite the fact that she was beautiful, rich and classy I just wasn't interested in her bcos I didn't want anything to do with a woman but I also noticed I was drawn to Derby. I was always happy whenever she was around & wanted to have around.
I fought the feelings so hard but I just couldn't hide it no more so I made advances at her but the disgust with which she said no broke me down.
I decided to forget about her but the more I saw her the more I melted for her.
On the eve of the day we were to round up, Betty came to me and promised me heaven & earth if only I'd date her. She gave me a cash sum of £25000 pound and promised to transfer another N100m into my account and make me a top manager in her father's conglomerate
At this point I was tempted, I swear my mind was saying a big fat yes even if my lips was saying no. I decided to start being nice to her bcos I was thinking of a whole lot of thing; damn her offer was juicy. Interestingly Derby began to warm up to me.
After giving it thorough thought I decided to stick with my happiness which was Derby despite all the juicy offers Betty brought forth. I decided in my mind I would try n play smart by leading Betty on. We all flew together, I refused Betty's first class offer to be with my Derby
Just as we arrived at the Abuja International airport I was shook by what I saw. An entourage of notable petsonalities came to welcome "us". I just stood at the back with my Derby as the people rushed towards Betty
Things took a new turn when everyone seemed to be avoiding Betty & rushing towards us and boom just like that, I discovered that Betty was the servant of Derby & they were just pretending all through. Damn they played a "coming to America on me" 😭😭😭
Yes I was angry and pissed but I was very happy I stuck with my love and if I hadn't, I would have ended up with the slave and be treated as a slave.
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