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2 years into monogamy I stopped taking guys out to meet women.
Directed them to Goldmund, Nick Sparks, others living the lifestyle.
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Directed them to Goldmund, Nick Sparks, others living the lifestyle.
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The reason for this was simple.
I wasn't doing it anymore, and I knew men would benefit more from those still a part of that experience.
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I wasn't doing it anymore, and I knew men would benefit more from those still a part of that experience.
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The manosphere has a serious accountability issue.
Rian is a doofus but just the tip of the iceberg. Too many have no investment in what they preach.
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Rian is a doofus but just the tip of the iceberg. Too many have no investment in what they preach.
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A lot of men are in pain and have issues they need to sort out.
I have a problem with guys arresting their growth due to their own bullshit.
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I have a problem with guys arresting their growth due to their own bullshit.
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If you have baggage with women and are not in a committed relationship you have *zero* right to moderate discussions on that topic.
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If you are middle aged "nomad" trying to bang virgins you have *zero* authority to talk about the civilization's decline or female amorality.
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The blind are leading the blind. A plurality of "gurus" around "the sphere" have severe psychological issues. Arrested development is rampant.
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The worst thing about it is they corrupt the guys who DO have skin in the game. They offer to help grow their brand.
The cost?
Stay on message!
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The cost?
Stay on message!
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These "gurus" leverage the authenticity of the legit guys to insulate themselves.
"He's my acolyte, and look how great he is doing."
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"He's my acolyte, and look how great he is doing."
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It's a deal with the devil. Their authenticity becomes a clandestine vehicle for the others' poison. The truth gets diluted in the hate.
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In other words, it's a ghetto. Don't stray from the groupthink and you'll be accepted, even promoted.
Really though you are just being used.
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Really though you are just being used.
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Nobody in #UpstreamTwitter claims to be anything but a work in progress. This is not a critique of anyone's issues. It's about intention.
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Gangs prey on isolated men looking for community. They welcome them in and keep them trapped.
These are the intentions I see from many in the sphere: recruiting guys into their own mental prison.
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These are the intentions I see from many in the sphere: recruiting guys into their own mental prison.
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I and others will continue speaking up until integrity and accountability return.
Until then, No More Gurus.
That is all.
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Until then, No More Gurus.
That is all.
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