Is one of the funniest guys I follow. The quintessential instigator, he's pissed off pretty much everyone at some point - myself included - for his own amusement.
Few realize tho he was responsible for organizing #Upstream. He put our thought into action.
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The first is recognizing your own response to excess. People get desensitized when they are constantly dating. It's like with food - snack on junk and you lose the ability to taste real food. Or like scrolling a feed vs reading a book.
We don't need that many leads.
The second comes in response to the first: you begin to notice individual girls more and feel a draw to them. This is your intuition; these you approach.
My experience (and those of my clients) has been that these approaches almost always go well and lead meaningful dates.
Dating sucks today because dating has become TRANSACTIONAL. No amount of numbers will change this.
Stop playing the same game and expecting different results.
Modern dating calls for a different game.
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I've been in this community for a decade and I've seen how it's changed.
The internet introduced collaboration between men, and PUAs assembled online to share tactics. This led first to bar/club game and then hacking online dating.
TRP came next, broadening the information in the tactics to a broader mating strategy, based on an understanding of culture.
Guys now have a foolproof approach to get laid, since they understand the biology of women and the sexual marketplace.
People are so weird about this stuff. Don't go into debt for a ring, but there's nothing wrong with buying something nice if you can afford it - she's going to wear it every day.
Price comes down to 4 variables: carat, color, clarity, cut.
Carat (size) is up to you, but overrated
Color matters but top end unnecessary
Clarity doesn't matter at all (unless very bad)
Cut is the most important thing
You get charged for all these, so decide accordingly
I got my wife half carat or less in size (can't remember), above average with color, average clarity, and ideal cut.
Cut is what makes the diamond sparkle.
The ring is gorgeous and cost like $2500, looks better than 10k rings. It's her favorite possession.