The only way to change women (and the world) is through yourself.
Why even smart people give useless advice on topics they're not involved in.
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Intelligence is the ability to understand and analyze topics. Wisdom is the experience and memory of what a topic is like in practice.
Both are good and amplify each other, but the latter matters more.
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Wisdom allows you to understand a topic at a human depth that is lacking from those on the sidelines.
Fat intellectuals may know Clauswitz by memory but they'll never know the smell and feel of combat.
This matters.
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Many here are anti-democracy - I'm not one of them. But they are right about one thing: from a logical standpoint the masses do not have enough standing to speak on topics.
Big systems are complex, and those who have accomplished little understand little.
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This is why the concept of "skin in the game" has become a core part of #Upstream
We don't care about "this is how things should be" theories. They might as well be fantasies.
Focus on things you know from analysis *and* experience. If you must pick one, choose the latter.
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There is no difference btw a "tradcon" male who isn't dating bc muh hypergamy & a "tradcon" female who spends her time posting thirst pics.
This "save the west" larping is as dissonant as a financially dependent "socialist" thinking HE can "change the system."
WAKE UP.
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YOU are the problem. Things suck because of YOU. Because YOU spend your time complaining online instead of doing things.
You're angry for one reason: because YOU have contempt for YOURSELF.
The mind conducts crazy rationalizations to protect the ego. You are no exception.
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Get right with yourself. Then, once you're happy in your day-to-day, self-sustained, confident - you'll find better quality women.
Choose from them, build your own little culture... help other men do the same. Spread it.
This is how you change the world.
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The first is recognizing your own response to excess. People get desensitized when they are constantly dating. It's like with food - snack on junk and you lose the ability to taste real food. Or like scrolling a feed vs reading a book.
We don't need that many leads.
The second comes in response to the first: you begin to notice individual girls more and feel a draw to them. This is your intuition; these you approach.
My experience (and those of my clients) has been that these approaches almost always go well and lead meaningful dates.
Dating sucks today because dating has become TRANSACTIONAL. No amount of numbers will change this.
Stop playing the same game and expecting different results.
Modern dating calls for a different game.
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I've been in this community for a decade and I've seen how it's changed.
The internet introduced collaboration between men, and PUAs assembled online to share tactics. This led first to bar/club game and then hacking online dating.
TRP came next, broadening the information in the tactics to a broader mating strategy, based on an understanding of culture.
Guys now have a foolproof approach to get laid, since they understand the biology of women and the sexual marketplace.
People are so weird about this stuff. Don't go into debt for a ring, but there's nothing wrong with buying something nice if you can afford it - she's going to wear it every day.
Price comes down to 4 variables: carat, color, clarity, cut.
Carat (size) is up to you, but overrated
Color matters but top end unnecessary
Clarity doesn't matter at all (unless very bad)
Cut is the most important thing
You get charged for all these, so decide accordingly
I got my wife half carat or less in size (can't remember), above average with color, average clarity, and ideal cut.
Cut is what makes the diamond sparkle.
The ring is gorgeous and cost like $2500, looks better than 10k rings. It's her favorite possession.