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Co-founder @dreamwidth / disabled dyke nerd / knows more about the internet than you do / blocks for bad vibes and fuckshittery
Sep 2, 2018 20 tweets 4 min read
This is why I believe federated social networks are never going to work out long term. Someone who starts an instance doesn't know they're signing up for thousands of hours a year wading through the cloaca of the internet. That shit is *terrible* for you. (CN terrible shit for this whole thread, btw.) Even if Mastodon had the best admin tools ever (and it sounds like they really don't), it's not possible to prepare someone starting a new instance for what is going to get reported to them, either the volume or the content.
Jun 5, 2018 38 tweets 8 min read
Correction: this is curation fandom today. Transformative fandom has an entirely different pattern of harassment, deployed in a way outsiders rarely recognize (& usually directed at other fans, not creators). Which type of fandom you're in is heavily gendered. Long thread: 1/ Curation fandom is my own term (does fan studies academia have a better one?) for the kind of fandom where you collect all the tiny details of canon, all the trivia, all the merchandise, all the things established in supplementary materials, etc. 2/
Feb 15, 2018 5 tweets 1 min read
Once again, the reason this country does nothing about the link between intimate partner violence and mass shootings is that if we banned people with history of IPV from having guns, up to *half* of current police officers would have to be disarmed. (Yes, I personally think that's a feature, not a bug, but the people who are in charge don't.)
Jan 14, 2018 26 tweets 5 min read
CN sex assault & coercion: I made the mistake of reading the comments. The victim blaming is disgusting. So I don't scream at everyone there, a rant about why women don't "just leave": Women use "soft no"s because we are socialized that the worst thing we can do is make a man feel bad. We are expected, even in refusing something a man wants, to manage their emotions (that they won't admit to having). We employ the soft no to attempt to bypass the sulk.
Sep 4, 2017 31 tweets 4 min read
if you have off from work today, btw, thank a "violent" "leftist" protesting the "wrong way": en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pullman_S… Labor Day exists because Pullman rail workers got fed up of high housing & living costs in the company town they were forced to live in.