Sometimes I think the only question that matters is how does any adult convince themselves that it is ok to be a(n) racist, sexist, agist, homophobe, abuser, liar, hater, elitist, rapist, etc?
We currently have an epidemic of these afflictions so it merits some thought...
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The truth is everytime someone displays the hate, they are showing you how wounded they are. It does not excuse their choices to act out the hate.
But realizing they are wounded can help to prevent you from taking on their anger and hate.
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To create a fertile ground for hate one simply has to make resources scarce and convince one group that another group has taken what should be theirs.
To make resources scarce just funnel a higher percentage of total wealth to the top and let the bottom 90% fight it out
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Still scarce resources are not a free pass to stop being a good person.
The #MeToo movement teaches us that speaking out against wrong doings in force works.
#TheResistance is another example of the power of shining a spotlight onto wrong doings!
In an age where lies are told everyday by people in power and a deluge of trolls and bota it can seem confusing to figure out what is true!
So I want to remind everyone that they have an internal lie detector. Think about it! Most of us know when someone is lying.
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Some ways to figure out how trustworthy the information is involves verifying facts, having data and/or other sources to confirm your assertions, being clear about the scope of your information, etc
Hint: Opinions and agreeing with your perspective do not equal truth.
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So always remember that we have what we need to stop this epidemic of hate: Love, compassion, truth and the power of standing up to wrong doings in force. 7/7 #MakeADifference#TheWorldNeedsYou
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"From Middlebury to Middletown and Norwalk to Norwich, people in [CT]... (cont)
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...feel squeezed. Our state has become one of the most expensive places to raise a family or start a business. And in the face of stagnant wages and weak job growth, Hartford politicians have hit middle class families with tax increase after tax increase. Even worse... (cont)
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...there’s barely anything to show for it: after three decades of mismanagement by governors of both parties, our budget hole remains deep and Connecticut’s working families are being asked to pick up more of the tab. It’s unfair, it’s unproductive, and it needs... (cont)
So let's think about this. 🤔
We live in a country where 1 out of every 4 or 5 women are sexually abused.
We have a president who thinks women are property and he can grab them whenever he wants.
People elected him knowing this. 1/
But let's be clear, men are also abused.
Statistics tell us that many abusers were victims.
It is a perpetuating cycle that will not stop until we decide to stop it.
Do you want your son or daughter to be abused?
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If not end this now.
Decide you will not allow this cycle of abuse to continue.
Do not put someone who will lie in the Supreme Court.
We have a liar in the White House and look at what is happening to our country.
17 years ago today, l was on the phone with a friend and the line went dead. She worked in the WTC and fortunately she and her husband made it out. But other friends did not and so many people lost a spouse, partner, parent, & /or child in NY, DC and PA that day!
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There were also many "life lessons" we had the opportunity to gleen in the years to come.
For example we learned that conspiracy theories can be appealing and thus we had to learn how to detect a conspiracy theory from truth.
We also learned that there are people who pretended to be victims of 9/11 to take advantage of the benefits offered to the true victims. To many of us it was inconcievable.
@kathycaprino wrote an article on how to tell when people are lying:
"As you may already know, one of the guiding principles of the AoC Checklist...(cont)
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"...is to practice gratitude. There's solid research that connects the act of expressing thanks with increased feelings of well-being and connection with others. I regularly suggest thanking people--from grassroots leaders to elected officials...(cont)"
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"...on both sides of the proverbial aisle--for doing courageous things.
Gratitude makes you feel more hopeful. It lets people know their efforts are seen and matter. And it also reminds us that there's more to democracy than "my side winning". In reality, democracy...(cont)"