Then your family and community will look at you different.
Your behavior will be questioned, and even if you has zero responsibility, many will blame you for being a tease, wanting it, being irresponsible for choosing what should be a totally innocuous setting.
How about it's pervasive? I don't even think I could tally how many times I was groped, grabbed or pawwed at in that outfit.
How about you spend most of your life being treated like no matter what you do, you will be hypersexualized?
I have a vivid memory of being told by an administrator at school that I needed to dress more demurely. I was wearing a turtleneck 2 sizes too big. #mepolitics
Once I ran into a former coworker that described a red dress I had loved and worn to work. He described it at skin tight and spandex or something.
It was wool, 2 sizes too big. And loose enough I had to pin it in place because I couldn't afford to have it tailored. #mepolitics
I have so much more I can type...but I don't need to spend today being angry. Women are oversexualized, treated like objects and regularly treated like our mere presence is an invitation to a party we aren't throwing.
I am a constituent of Susan's. Ever since I have moved here I am astonished at how incredibly effective she is at harnessing people's hope and her words like a damn magician.
Though she is a consistent conservative vote, she is able to focus all eyes on her.
In this hypo traditional campaigning requires around $1+ million per year to get and/or keep a house seat (plus all the other energy you have to expend to keep the peanut gallery PACs happy).
Let's assume they're at it 5 days/week and take a couple weeks off per year.
Too many really lovely people hoping for their partner, child, parent, etc to be the person they could be if that partner, child, parent, etc if they only changed, which of course they have no desire and/or resources to do.
I've been asked this a lot - what is the benefit of ranked choice voting?
If you feel like politics keeps pushing far left or far right as candidates differentiate, RCV lets you pick the moderate with the back-up of "not the other one".
Maybe you think of yourself as an independent, moderate, etc, and really don't love either party (but probably like one party less) - you can select me as your first choice, and still have the back up of another candidate if not enough people agree with you. #mepolitics
In this race, folks who like Bruce probably don't like Jared, folks who prefer Jared probably aren't keen on Bruce.
A lot of folks would like (or find less annoying) someone who really isn't a party. With RCV, you can do that! It removes the risk of vote-splitting.