Thread by @mrshadeed

A real-world guide to captivate people much more successful than you to genuinely like you and join your social circle.

(Thread) #peopleskills #CRM
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Never answer the question “What do you do?” directly.
Instead, convey *why you do it*
Here’s how.
1.) Develop a larger vision for your work
2.)Condense your vision into a 2 minute story

💡Ultra successful people are drawn to big ideas. #peopleskills #crm

Replace “could, should, would” with:
I believe
I predict
I guarantee
💡High achievers are drawn to the usage of affirmative language. It’s an unspoken form of commitment.
#peopleskills

Whenever in a group of 3 or more people, *always* suggest a place to eat, hang out socialize.
At an event? Suggest a place to hangout for a nightcap.
💡Ultra successful people are always “the boss” in their lives & gravitate to people who allow them to “be free”
#peopleskills

Major key 🔑:
Learn success aikido.
You *must* redirect all feelings of jealousy and inadequacy of your successful friend’s big wins & success by transmuting energy into motivation for your upward trajectory. #peopleskills

*Important*
Create a cocoon of confidentiality w/ your words & freedom from judgement w/ your actions.
Your interactions shouldn’t exist on social media unless they post it or ask you to share online
Allowing successful people to unwind in your presence will be your #1 asset

Your clothing must compliment your vision, communicate your ambition, & display unique aspects of your personality!
1.)Invest in a tailor
2.)Smell good
3.)Invest in good shoes

Clueless: Take a fashion designer out for lunch. Pick their brain. If genuine, they will help you.

When meeting ultra successful people, your new mission is:
Be genuinely curious enough to ask them questions 💡until you identify the right person from your network to *introduce* them to. 💡
Be the connector. Be the bridge. Be the Hub. #peopleskills

❌Don’t: Defend, argue, or explain your preferences or activities
✅Do: Educate your social circle to who you are by inviting them to *planned outings*.
Their respect for you will deepen & your status will elevate.
💡Successful people crave new experiences.

In conversations with ultra successful people, eliminate all self-deprecating jokes from your vocabulary.
It’s passive-aggressive energy.
The following phrases, said jokingly, will repel ppl from you:
“It must be nice”
“Sucks to be me”
“Can I have a loan?”

Whenever presented with the successful news directly from a high achiever, shift your mindset from “Wow!” and start asking “How?”

Genuinely celebrate success but you are nobody’s #1 fan.

💡Ask inquisitive questions about the mindset it required to achieve the milestone.